Yes, go wider, that is an 'upgrade' now. The 8.5 +35 might be a bit more sunken looking than the rear, but it will look good with stock suspension settings. I would go with the 8.5 +35, and 9.5 + 38 Although you could also get away with an 8.5 with a lower offset (ie +20 to +26) and it would look even better